That's sexual activity that I've returned to. A first date in London ended with being invited back to hers, where BDSM play and oral sex (fellatio, and more brutal facefucking) took place.
Being a gentleman, I will not reveal any further details of what went on, except to say that it was wonderful, silly, at times embarrassing. Just what you might expect from a first time together. Especially the first time in several years! And especially a first time that I never really expected to come on this first date. Fortunately, I did allow for the possibility, and bought condoms before heading to London for the date, not expecting to use them, but because I figured even if we didn't use them this time, we might well want to in the next few weeks.
The best bit in some ways was finding out just how many books and interests we had in common - this morning had one extended period of quoting Bill Bailey song lyrics at each other and giggling. There seemed to be quite a lot of giggling, laughing, chuckling and that sort of thing, which all-in-all, I think is a good thing.
She identifies as feminist, which I think is a must-have in any date, especially a date who wants BDSM sex (and since I am generally not going to be interested in dating someone who doesn't, that means any date at all!) I won't say any more about that because that's her story to tell, if she wishes. But the confidence it gives me that she'll be able to say that she doesn't want it is that much stronger.
So tonight, I have many happy memories from the last 36 hours or so!
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